People

People....Mankind….Humans
Before you are anything, you are a person...

Life starts out as:
Baby girl/boy!
Daughter/ Son
Girlfriend/ Boyfriend
Fiancée
Husband/ Wife
Mother/Father
Grandmother/Father

So why is it that males are seen as sub-human. All I read on the blog is what assholesthe male species are.

As for the men slating woman... You come from a woman, and you will go to a woman(unless you are gay) who will bring your offspring into this world.

Every person out there who becomes a bitch or a dog, needed the other to become what he/she is. The one cannot exist without the other.

It’s been my experience that there is no difference in the needs of males and females .We all need to be loved, wants approval, validation and most of all ACCEPTANCE.
We all cry for the same reasons: men mostly in seclusion, woman -some publicly and some in privately.

Men are scared at times and are ashamed of showing this emotion, they will come across as Assholes just to mask their feelings, be it pain or pleasure.
Woman are no different. They will however verbalise their fears... They will bitch and moan to anyone who is willing to listen.

So why do we endorse and perpetuate the battle of the sexes? Are we so insecure in who we are?

People are just people, all have the same needs and wants.
We all hide who we truelly are from the world, we should actually get Oscars for our performances!

An asshole to one woman may be the next woman prince, and vice versa. What we should ask ourselves is
" Who and what am I to others"?

We should recognize the difference in behavior of the person and not the gender.

Destiny- Cruel or Kind?

I like myself! or maybe I'm just settling because I'm too lazy to change.

Who I have become was definately not what I dreamt of walking to and from school.

Does experience shape who we are? or do we just grow into who we are suppose to be?
"Can you change your stars?" like in the movie "A Knight’s Tale"

Let me elaborate...

Dream: Get married at the age of 27
Reality: Got married at 17

Dream: Become a doctor since the age of 7 to 16, later changed to a nurse. Never happened.
Reality: Had a boyfriend who became my husband -Working in the medical insurance industry, auditing medical accounts.

Dream: I wanted to be independent, do what I like when I liked
Reality: Got divorced. Forced into independence, doing just that.

etc....

So how much of my destiny is in my hands and how does my destiny affects those around me?

Carefree

How I miss those days!
When I was free and I didnt have a care in the world!
When my parents were responsible for my needs and sometimes my wants.

Back then all I wanted was my own apartment, a nice car and lots of money.
How simple life was back then.

I now have what I wanted... except the money... I should have been more specific when it came to the money. I have enough to live on...I should have said 10x what I need.

Ahh those carefree days... when everything was free and I didnt care.
Way back then, I didnt realise it.

Where to from here?

It feels like I'm Stuck....
I will have to write about where I've come from, where I've been ....
to be able to find my way forward.

Not now... I dont have the luxury of time...